Have you ever found yourself at a crossroads in a relationship, wondering if the partnership you're forging matches the one you envisioned, or if gender roles are tying you down? Relationships are complex beasts; our latest episode strips them down to their core, examining the true intent behind seeking companionship and the real-life implications of societal pressures on our personal bonds. We're pouring out the contents of our heart, discussing the intersection between modern masculinity, the quest for control, and the essential need for balance and respect. A candid retelling of a drive-through encounter casts a glaring light on these issues, showcasing how the evolving dynamics between men and women can both puzzle and enlighten us.
Wrestling with the shifting tides of gender dynamics is no small feat, and we're not shying away from the challenge. You'll hear personal anecdotes that reveal the vulnerability we all face and the emotional toll of authenticity when it’s met with indifference. What does it mean to be true to oneself while nurturing a growing partnership? We explore this question, sharing insights on the loneliness that often accompanies solitude and weighing it against the rarity of finding a partner who's equally invested in mutual growth. This heart-to-heart aims not only to reflect our own experiences but also to spark a deeper understanding of the intricacies wrapped up in the quest for modern love and companionship.
Have you ever found yourself at a crossroads in a relationship, wondering if the partnership you're forging matches the one you envisioned, or if gender roles are tying you down? Relationships are complex beasts; our latest episode strips them down to their core, examining the true intent behind seeking companionship and the real-life implications of societal pressures on our personal bonds. We're pouring out the contents of our heart, discussing the intersection between modern masculinity, the quest for control, and the essential need for balance and respect. A candid retelling of a drive-through encounter casts a glaring light on these issues, showcasing how the evolving dynamics between men and women can both puzzle and enlighten us.
Wrestling with the shifting tides of gender dynamics is no small feat, and we're not shying away from the challenge. You'll hear personal anecdotes that reveal the vulnerability we all face and the emotional toll of authenticity when it’s met with indifference. What does it mean to be true to oneself while nurturing a growing partnership? We explore this question, sharing insights on the loneliness that often accompanies solitude and weighing it against the rarity of finding a partner who's equally invested in mutual growth. This heart-to-heart aims not only to reflect our own experiences but also to spark a deeper understanding of the intricacies wrapped up in the quest for modern love and companionship.
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STF Podcast. What it do, man, it's your boy, ntso. Man, I know I ain't been on here in a few weeks, you know, but you know life is lifin' man, it's lifin'. It's a lot of things I've yet to understand nowadays. And this one right here is, like, point critical. Like what's the point? Why do I'm just gonna say it? What's the point of a relationship, bro, like if you're not in it Genuinely To learn a motherfucker, to get to know a motherfucker and grow and excuse my French, but just I'm baffled. You know what I'm saying, because from the older generation down to the younger generation, it's pure idiocracy. You know what I'm saying. Like I don't get it, and I don't mean this in a harsh way. You know what I'm saying Because it was a conversation that came up with me and somebody and it was like well, women been belittled so long, it's now time for them to stand up.
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And you know, and I was like no women have a place value in life. As a woman, you can't, you can't. I mean, if you put your mind to it, anybody can do anything, but what is you trying to outshine a man for? You know what I'm saying. Why is you like y'all have different positions and different roles in life that that partake easily. You know what I'm saying. Like women can level up so easily in life, but a man who been through something, coming from somewhere, like it ain't that easy and it ain't that hard, but to know that y'all dealing in you know, you don't know, you don't know nothing about nothing, like I'm just confused. You know what I'm saying. This, not this, not my situation, but it's a fellow peer of mine situation. That I'm just confused. You know what I'm saying.
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Because women say they want good dudes, they want a. You know somebody gonna put they all into them, who gonna do this? Who gonna do that? You know what I'm saying. But when you get that, you really you really don't, you don't act. That you know what I'm saying why? Because it ain't in the shape, form or fashion that you want. You know what I'm saying. So therefore, you just, you just fuck it. I'm just going to accompany what's here. Nah, that's tiresome, that's depressing. You know what I'm saying. Just dealing, just to be dealing, because I don't know.
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I done been through a lot of situations or relationships and the entitlement is crazy once a motherfucker get a title though you know what I'm saying Motherfucker searching for a title so bad but don't even know how to accompany that title. You know, you gotta, you gotta want it for yourself Before somebody else want it for you. Like you can't expect a motherfucker To do something for you that you haven't done for yourself, or Even try to yourself. I'm just saying this is like the harsh reality of today, man. The women is so masculine nowadays.
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Like a brother came through my drive through the other day and I commend his brother. I don't know who he is, but he come through the drive through the other day and, um, basically his woman was trying to order from the passenger seat. Like, basically, belittle him, like nigga, shut up, I got this. You know what I'm saying. You just drive. So you know I'm taking the order or whatever. And you know you can hear the lady getting sassy or whatever. For no reason. I'm just, I'm explaining to her what we have, what we don't have. You know, would you like it larger? Would you like it smaller? Like you know, I'm just taking, I'm just taking the order or whatever. And you can, you can hear it in their voice. You're getting sassy.
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But the guy, he didn't get loud or nothing, he just looked over. Well, from what I can see, he just looked over, said something and then he continued to place the order. So, boom, we get to the window, you know, and I guess they thought I was going to change the demeanor. They didn't expect to see me myself there per se. But um, the woman kept the same energy. You know the whole sassy attitude or whatever. Because once I hand them their food or whatever, she was like nah, my drink supposed to be this, can I get this? Can I get that? So I guess the brother could feel, you know, the tension rising because I'm finna say something now. So before I could even get a word out, he looked over again and he said something to her and she sat back in the seat because I didn't respond to nothing. She said you know what I'm saying. And I guess the brother could feel the agitation and irritation and he looked over and he said something. She said back. But I commend that brother. You know what I'm saying, because you at a fast food place what you getting sassy about place, what you getting, what you getting sassy about, what you getting sassy for it's nothing to get sassy about. You know I'm saying you finish spent $20, you know, on some combos, like cut it out, you know. So I commend that brother for stepping in and actually you know, playing his position. You know what I'm saying.
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But we have a thing now in today's society where women want to be so masculine, they want to be the head, they want to control so much and do so much. But it's like y'all messing up the chessboard. Y'all messing up the chessboard. Y'all messing up the chessboard. Yeah, the queen can run around and knock shit down and, you know, wipe shit out, yeah, she can do that all day. Set shit up all type of shit.
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But at the same time, a real solid man is a leader, not a follower. So even if she got her own motion, I still got my own motion. You know what I'm saying. And the only way to merge them if somebody submit. So somebody got to be submissive and it ain't going to be that man, you know what I'm saying. So just look at the reality of the shit, man, and I see it every day, every day, all day. You know what I'm saying. And it's, it's redundant, it's crazy, you know. But, man, you know, I'm going to keep it all the way.
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A book man, I didn't broke down on women. I didn't cry, I didn't win their faces, kept it all the way. A book told my story. Only for what? Only for what, only for what. So many, so many women you know come in my life just to get lessons, man, and they don't understand that I'm left to the wolves. You know what I'm saying?
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Like this shit, just be so funny because a nigga becoming so genuine, but that genuine shit ain't finna. Give me no word, bro. Like, no matter how hard I try, no matter what I do, bro. Like, try, no matter what I do, bro. Like it just it don't make sense, bro. It don't make sense. It don't make sense. Like a woman will wait till they been played with so many times before they go back to that right one. But that right one be he burnt out already, so he don't need any fucking with you. And now it's a whole situation. You won't curse that person Now, you know we'll call him off of name. Do all this type of shit. You know it's like, bro.
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Women have a place, a place value, bro, and the ones teaching their face value, man, or their place value, is like oh no, bro. Like the game ain't how it used to know, bro. Like the game ain't how it used to be, man, the women ain't how it used to be. Like I'm confused. I'm very confused. Nowadays I'd rather go isolate bro, like go in complete isolation bro. I really go isolate bro, like go in complete isolation bro, because it's hard to find genuine ism out here, bro, like a motherfucker really willing to grow and learn, like I don't know. But this NTSO man, y'all know I'm going to hold you. I just have to speak on it a little bit, man Lego.